Understanding Engagement in Dating

Many dating experts suggest that if a woman doesn't captivate you, it's best to move on. But is this always the right approach?

Should you stay or walk away?

Women can often seem dull.

That was my initial belief.

While I desired intimacy, the journey towards it felt lackluster.

Conversations felt like an obligatory task.

This mindset not only hindered my ability to engage with women but also stifled any potential romantic prospects.

Chances are, this mindset is holding you back too.

Fortunately, I discovered a valuable lesson that transformed my perspective:

"Everyone has an intriguing side; it's your responsibility to uncover it."

This wisdom came from my journalism professor.

He explained that interviewees can appear distant at first. They may not know or trust you and could be wary of opening up. It was my role to create a safe environment for them.

Years later, I realized this principle extends to dating.

Most men are perceived as untrustworthy until they demonstrate otherwise, which is unfortunate but true.

This is why many women seem unresponsive when approached in social settings. They often give brief replies and contribute little to the conversation.

This is simply because they are unfamiliar with you, lack trust, and are hesitant to engage.

As a man, it is your duty to foster a sense of comfort for women.

Men should aim to provide the majority of the entertainment during initial interactions. It's crucial to maintain an engaging and confident demeanor even without immediate positive reinforcement.

While it may seem unfair, you are the one seeking something from her.

It's your responsibility to take the lead.

So, embrace the challenge of being captivating and entertaining first. Women will start to reveal their engaging sides once they feel attracted to you.

This lesson became evident as I improved my own attractiveness.

Once women find you appealing, they are more likely to invest in the conversation, becoming playful and revealing fascinating aspects of their lives.

You can accelerate this process by focusing on your appearance and demeanor.

For those of us who are average-looking, showcasing appealing personality traits is essential.

Regardless of the approach, you'll soon realize that most women can be delightful companions.

If you haven't experienced this yet, it may be due to not encouraging them to share that intriguing side of themselves.

Should you continue or move on?

I've heard dating coaches advise men to leave if they find a woman uninteresting.

This advice is understandable, promoting a mindset of abundance.

However, be cautious not to fall into the trap of dismissing women too hastily. This mindset led me to believe all women were mundane.

Women often require time to become comfortable with a man.

By quickly moving on from every encounter that doesn't immediately spark interest, you may overlook incredible connections.

Unless you possess striking looks, you might find yourself waiting a long time for that effortlessly captivating woman.

Therefore, it's beneficial to learn how to persist in conversations, even when the initial response is lackluster.

Focus on developing the skill of being interesting first.

You might be surprised at how much fun women can be once you take the initiative.

If you want to delve deeper into my strategies for meeting and attracting women, the Game Global Skool community offers a free course on approaching women and creating swift romantic connections.

Chapter 1: The Art of Engagement

In the video "HOW TO DEAL WITH BORING WOMEN," you'll discover techniques to navigate initial dullness and uncover the interesting sides of women.

Chapter 2: Strategies for Captivating Conversations

In "How To NOT Be Boring When Talking To Women | 5 Ways To Be MORE Interesting," learn actionable tips on how to be more engaging in conversations with women.