Chapter 1: Reflecting on Growth

Life is an ongoing journey of discovery, and that's perfectly acceptable.

Recently, I've noticed a trend on social media where individuals express what they would say to their younger selves. This made me ponder: what insights would I share with my 15-year-old self based on what I know now?

The past decade has brought substantial changes, and I’m often surprised by how much I've evolved even over the last year, let alone the last ten. Certain aspects stand out: the anxieties I had a decade ago now seem trivial, the relationships I invested time in that I regret, and conversations I wish I could have navigated differently.

However, I don’t view these as regrets. Life is a vast learning experience, and I can’t blame my younger self for lacking the wisdom and maturity to handle situations differently. Yet, there are days when I wish I could reassure that young girl that everything will ultimately be okay.

When asked about my aspirations at 15, my response was consistently “to be happy.” I hope she would be proud of me now, as I have become a generally joyful and fulfilled individual. Growth is a gradual process, and trusting it is essential.

Here are the lessons I wish I could impart to my younger self:

• You’re not obligated to get along with everyone. Focus on nurturing the friendships that truly matter.
• Beauty standards vary greatly worldwide. You don't need to conform to a specific color or size to be considered “beautiful,” and these standards are ever-changing. Don't waste your energy on them.
• High school will be insignificant in ten years; most of these people will be distant memories. Don’t let it weigh heavily on your heart.
• Hair will grow back. That hair color change isn’t the end of the world.
• Cherish your parents wholeheartedly; they’re doing their best for you.
• Remember that celebrities are not perfect and likely aren’t any happier than you are. They shouldn’t be your idols.
• Academics are important, but real-life experiences await you. There’s so much more to explore.
• Relationships will come and go. The end of one doesn't mean you'll be alone forever.
• Consider starting dance—it's your happy place (I wish I had begun at 15).
• It's never too late to learn a new skill. Just take the plunge.

What are some insights you wish you could share with your younger self?

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