The Challenge of Seeking Feedback

Many writers, myself included, often share their drafts with friends and family for input. While these reviewers may agree to help, it can unintentionally create a burden for them. Those who know you well tend to be overly kind, which might not provide the honest critique you need. What you truly require is insight into how your writing resonates with readers.

Writers frequently delve deep into their topics, making connections that may not be apparent to others. As a result, what seems clear to you might be confusing to your audience. Sometimes, stepping away for a few days can leave you puzzled by your own words!

To ensure your writing is accessible, it's beneficial to have someone who lacks your level of knowledge read it. Their perspective will reveal whether your writing hits the mark in terms of clarity and understanding.

However, soliciting feedback from a non-writer can lead to ambiguity. They may be unsure of how to articulate their thoughts or what specific insights you seek.

Here’s where the CUBA method shines!

Introducing the CUBA Method

CUBA stands for Confusing, Unbelievable, Boring, and Awkward. This method is so simple that anyone can apply it, making it perfect for friends and family—even if they lack writing expertise. The beauty of CUBA is that it focuses on identifying issues rather than fixing them, allowing the writer to take ownership of the revisions.

Here's how it works:

When you request feedback, ask reviewers to mark passages with the following letters:

• C (Confusing): When they struggle to understand your message.
• U (Unbelievable): When your claims seem exaggerated to the point of losing credibility.
• B (Boring): To point out passages that lack engagement.
• A (Awkward): For sections that are difficult to read or poorly constructed.

Reviewers need not provide explanations; their task is simply to highlight where problems exist. It’s up to the writer to determine how to address these issues.

The Benefits of Using CUBA

Using the CUBA method comes with several advantages:

• Simplicity: Reviewers don't need writing expertise; they just need to understand the meaning behind each letter.
• Speed: A single letter suffices for effective feedback.
• No Special Tools Required: You can use CUBA with any platform—Word, Google Docs, or even printed copies.
• Reduced Stress for Reviewers: Friends and family may hesitate to provide negative feedback, fearing it might hurt your feelings. The neutrality of CUBA alleviates this concern.
• Less Impact on Ego: Feedback can be tough to hear. With CUBA, a simple letter indicates an issue without harsh judgment, preserving your relationship with the reviewer.
• More and Better Feedback: When reviewers don't feel pressured to suggest improvements, they’re more likely to provide input.

Final Thoughts

The CUBA method is a fast, easy, and nonjudgmental approach to receiving feedback. It reflects the reader's thoughts as they engage with your writing, without requiring special tools or creating anxiety about hurt feelings. Remember, your reviewers should point out problems, not prescribe solutions.

Next time you seek a quick review, consider asking a friend, family member, or colleague to use the CUBA method. Who knows, they might even enjoy a mojito while they review your work!